Matthew 18:15-17
15 ¶ Moreover if thy brother shall
trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if
he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.
16 But if he will not hear
thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three
witnesses every word may be established.
17 And if he shall neglect to hear
them, tell it unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be
unto thee as an heathen man and a publican.
The above passage of Scripture is one of the most oft ignored in
the Scripture, and it is one of the most abused when it is noticed. It is often
used by heretics and blasphemers to excuse rebuking them publicly. The truth of
this verse, as basic hermeneutics would tell anyone, is that if your brother
trespasses against YOU then these verses give you the prescription on how to
resolve the issue. It does not apply to heretics and blasphemers who would not
even allow you to meet with them alone or those that shield themselves from
being able to be met with.
When people do have their brothers trespass
against them do they normally follow this passage of Scripture? They do not.
Most tell everyone they know about the fault except the person that trespassed
against them. They have no interest in restoring the brother back to themselves
and the faith as may be required, they just want to speak evil of them. Speaking
evil is forbidden in the Scriptures:
Titus 3:1-3
1 ¶ Put them in mind to be subject to principalities and
powers, to obey magistrates, to be ready to every good work,
2 To speak
evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but gentle, shewing all meekness unto all
men.
3 For we ourselves also were sometimes foolish, disobedient, deceived,
serving divers lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful, and
hating one another.
How much this
truth is ignored, and this command is disobeyed. Are you going to walk in lusts
and pleasures, being foolish, and living in malice, envy, and hate? Why not walk
in the love of God, which includes speaking evil of no man? I must clarify what
it is to speak evil of a man, lest anyone give too weak and shallow a meaning so
that they can excuse their backbiting and tale bearing. Speaking evil of a man
does not have to be untruths. If you tell others about how you saw Mr. Smith
cursing (telling such when he is not present), you are speaking evil of the man.
"But, he did curse," you may say. That does not matter, you are not called of
God to be some heavenly tale-bearer and backbiter. You need to confront him with
the issue or keep it to yourself. If the man is not present to defend himself or
receive any benefit from such rebuke, then you are speaking evil of the man. The
truthfulness or untruthfulness or what you tell does not change whether it is
speaking evil of the man.
Now, if I just stopped there, then you would be
left impotent in speaking out against false teachers and blasphemers. This
principle behind speaking evil of no man is because such is unprofitable and
evil. What if Mr. Smith gets drunk a lot and offers to take Sister Johnson's
children to school, would you be speaking evil in warning Sister Johnson of the
potential danger that Mr. Smith poses to her children due to his drunkenness? I
think not, and you would be in sin to do nothing, because "Therefore to him that
knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin" (James 4:17).
What about if you witness a crime, do you not have an obligation to testify of
such a crime? Of course you do, and such is not what the law of speaking evil of
no man refers to. This is a law about one's motives in the matter, and it is
rare that one will have the need to tell of another person's fault to a third
party. 99.99% of the time such is done with evil intentions. How many times have
we all heard someone requesting "prayer" for another person by telling all their
faults? Evil things like, "We need to pray for Brother Jones because I hear he
beats his wife and is committing adultery." This is speaking evil of the person,
and is wicked. What about those that pray long prayers in public chronicling the
perceived faults of others? Such is wicked, and it is speaking evil of the
person. It is sad that most of the conversations going on are infiltrated with
some manner of speaking evil of another person. This should not be so in the
church, among God's saints.
Psalms
141:3
3 Set a watch, O LORD, before my mouth; keep the door of my
lips.
This should be our heartfelt
desire before the Lord. We should seek God's guidance and grace to provide us
assistance in avoiding this soul polluting sin. It may be very difficult because
this is a sin that is at every turn. Preachers and ministers and laypeople all
practice this evil with impunity. Have you ever heard anyone rebuked for
speaking evil of someone else? If so, that is a rare occurrence and the person
rebuking the wicked should be honored for their faithfulness. Do you dress up
your sin of evil speaking by claiming to do it in righteous indignation against the sinners? You still commit sin in such actions. Do you profess to show forth your hatred of sin by committing sin
in speaking evil? You are serving the devil every moment of your supposed zeal
for the things of God when you speak evil. Children of God, put away evil
speaking, tale bearing, whispering, and backbiting: speak only blessings and
good things.
James 3:8-12
8 But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly
evil, full of deadly poison.
9 Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and
therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God.
10 Out of
the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought
not so to be.
11 Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and
bitter?
12 Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine,
figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh.
You say that you have the Spirit, but your words
betray the fact that you actually have a devil. You speak curses and evil of
men, and as such you are a sinner. Truly how few will be saved when this issue
is presented and they are judged on it! Will we enjoin the devils and speak evil
of men, or will we be joined unto the Lord and speak blessings?
With all
that being said, I need to make sure that one does not confuse this issue with
the needful warnings we may have to do to protect the innocent. If someone tells
you they are studying under a teacher you know teaches false doctrine, you are
not to stand idly by under the guise of speaking evil of no man and just let
them persist in being taught error. You should graciously and prayerfully warn
the person and compare the teachings of the teacher with the Scriptures. Such
should be more about what the Scriptures teach then about the teacher. You would
be a sinner to let a wolf in sheep's clothing come in and mislead a saint. You
must speak out, and if the teacher is publicly teaching heresy, then you have an
obligation to publicly speak out . This is the Scriptural way of doing things as
is seen by the Lord Jesus Christ in Matthew 23 and by the
apostles.
Acts 7:51-54
51 ¶ Ye
stiffnecked and uncircumcised in heart and ears, ye do always resist the Holy
Ghost: as your fathers did, so do ye.
52 Which of the prophets
have not your fathers persecuted? and they have slain them which shewed before
of the coming of the Just One; of whom ye have been now the betrayers and
murderers:
53 Who have received the law by the disposition of angels, and
have not kept it.
54 ¶ When they heard these things, they were cut to
the heart, and they gnashed on him with their teeth.
1 Timothy
5:20
20 Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may
fear.
Titus 3:10-11
10 A man that is an heretick after the first and
second admonition reject;
11 Knowing that he that is such is subverted, and
sinneth, being condemned of himself.
There is a clear Biblical precedent for publicly rebuking
heretics and blasphemers.
1
Corinthians 5:1-5
1 ¶ It is reported commonly that there is
fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the
Gentiles, that one should have his father’s wife.
2 And ye are puffed up, and
have not rather mourned, that he that hath done this deed might be taken away
from among you.
3 For I verily, as absent in body, but present in spirit,
have judged already, as though I were present, concerning him that hath
so done this deed,
4 In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when ye are
gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ,
5
To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the
spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.
Do you see how the apostle Paul handled the sinful man in the
Corinthians church? He did not see the sin, nor was he personally there to know
of it; BUT he still passed a judgment down upon him and publicly rebuked
him.
1 Timothy 4:10
10 For Demas
hath forsaken me, having loved this present world, and is departed unto
Thessalonica; Crescens to Galatia, Titus unto Dalmatia.
2 Timothy
1:15
15 ¶ This thou knowest, that all they which are in Asia be turned away
from me; of whom are Phygellus and Hermogenes.
1 Timothy
1:18-20
18 ¶ This charge I commit unto thee, son Timothy, according to the
prophecies which went before on thee, that thou by them mightest war a good
warfare;
19 Holding faith, and a good conscience; which some having put away
concerning faith have made shipwreck:
20 Of whom is Hymenaeus and Alexander;
whom I have delivered unto Satan, that they may learn not to
blaspheme.
Galatians 2:11-14
11 ¶ But when Peter was come to Antioch,
I withstood him to the face, because he was to be blamed.
12 For before that
certain came from James, he did eat with the Gentiles: but when they were come,
he withdrew and separated himself, fearing them which were of the
circumcision.
13 And the other Jews dissembled likewise with him; insomuch
that Barnabas also was carried away with their dissimulation.
14 But when I
saw that they walked not uprightly according to the truth of the gospel, I said
unto Peter before them all, If thou, being a Jew, livest after the manner
of Gentiles, and not as do the Jews, why compellest thou the Gentiles to live as
do the Jews?
Acts 13:6-12
6 And when they had gone through the isle
unto Paphos, they found a certain sorcerer, a false prophet, a Jew, whose name
was Barjesus:
7 Which was with the deputy of the country, Sergius
Paulus, a prudent man; who called for Barnabas and Saul, and desired to hear the
word of God.
8 But Elymas the sorcerer (for so is his name by interpretation)
withstood them, seeking to turn away the deputy from the faith.
9 Then Saul,
(who also is called Paul,) filled with the Holy Ghost, set his eyes on
him,
10 And said, O full of all subtilty and all mischief, thou child
of the devil, thou enemy of all righteousness, wilt thou not cease to
pervert the right ways of the Lord?
11 And now, behold, the hand of the Lord
is upon thee, and thou shalt be blind, not seeing the sun for a season.
And immediately there fell on him a mist and a darkness; and he went about
seeking some to lead him by the hand.
12 Then the deputy, when he saw what
was done, believed, being astonished at the doctrine of the Lord.
3 John
9-11
9 ¶ I wrote unto the church: but Diotrephes, who loveth to have the
preeminence among them, receiveth us not.
10 Wherefore, if I come, I will
remember his deeds which he doeth, prating against us with malicious words: and
not content therewith, neither doth he himself receive the brethren, and
forbiddeth them that would, and casteth them out of the church.
11 Beloved,
follow not that which is evil, but that which is good. He that doeth good is of
God: but he that doeth evil hath not seen God.
We see from the previous Scriptures that people were regularly named
and rebuked publicly. Such rebuke needs to be done in prayerful consideration
ensuring your only intent is to protect someone innocent from false teaching or
blasphemy. Warning against such people to make yourself look better or get back
at someone is wicked and evil. So if you want to warn someone, you must be sure
before God that you are doing what is right and are not being used of Satan. Let
me give you an example of a good situation to warn in. Someone mentioned
publicly a man that I was aware of who had replaced the gospel of the Lord Jesus
Christ with a self-help gospel (Cp. Galatians 1:8-9). I publicly rebuked such as
heresy, dealing only with the actual heresy and not personally attacking the
man. Such is the only way to warn. I have seen so many go off into evil and
personally attack people, the way they look, how they speak, etc. all the while
supposedly warning of the heretics. The reality is they are launching a personal
campaign against the person, not warning of heresy. You must judge your motives.
Are you warning because you do not like the person and want others to join you
in not liking them? If so, then you are in sin. Are you warning because you
sincerely fear others could be turned from the faith and because you grieve for
the person teaching heresy? If so, then you are operating in righteousness.
There is a fine line whereby you could say the same thing as another, but if
your motive is impure then you would be in sin and they would not be. You must
get the Lord's permission before acting in such situations.
1 Peter 3:8-12
8 ¶ Finally, be ye all of one mind,
having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be
courteous:
9 Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but
contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should
inherit a blessing.
10 For he that will love life, and see good days, let
him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no
guile:
11 Let him eschew evil, and do good; let him seek peace, and ensue
it.
12 For the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and his ears are open
unto their prayers: but the face of the Lord is against them that do
evil.